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As women we always want to know what men think of us. What they like. .dislike. .and of course find sexy. In his latest installment my favorite "Matchmaker" Paul Carrick Brunson shares the 13* Things men find most sexy about us. Trust me this is a must read!!
What is sexy to you?
I'm fascinated with this question. I ask it frequently on Twitter and to all of my clients in our initial meeting. What's most interesting is that sometimes it's answered with purely physical characteristics while others respond with personality traits. Another intriguing aspect of the responses is that while ladies have a wide variation in what they consider sexy, fellas are narrower with their thoughts.
Having asked this question to what I estimate to be over 1,000 men in the last 3 years, I have compiled my own list of what the guys revealed. Ladies, it’s time to listen up.
These are the thirteen things men find most sexy about a woman, promise!
You’ve heard of a “breast man” and “butt man” types, but there is a third type of man out there, and he ain’t playin’. Meet the “lower limb lover” aka the “leg man.” When I recently polled a few hundred men on Twitter, “legs” was by far the number one sexy thing about a woman.
“I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there’ and it will move.” Nothing is sexier than that.
Mean Shoe Game
Shocker: Men look at shoes, too. Five to six-inch heels will get his attention. Trust Me!
A Pleasant Scent
To the surprise of many, attraction actually begins with scent. .YES, scent.
As a good friend of mine says, “big butts win championships.”
Patti Labelle Skills
As my grandma says, “A sure way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” This was and is still true.
Don’t let the girls hang all the way out, but don’t keep them completely covered either.
When confidence is conveyed in a subtle way, it’s always more sexy.
An Adventurous Spirit
Be daring and be willing to try new things.
Specifically, the small of the back. Unveil it and you’ll make the fellas go crazy.
Gandhi said it best: “Genuine laughter is true eloquence.
The Hip to Waist Curve
Here’s another one I bet you didn’t see coming. If your waist is 70% or less than your hip, that’s sexy!
Using His Name
Get your mind out of the gutter. (Smiles!) I’m not just talking about sex. I’m simply talking about in general conversation. The sweetest sound to anyone is hearing his or her own name.
For more advice and to get feedback from the "Modern Day Matchmaker" himself follow him on Twitter at @PaulCBrunson
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